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Pastors, Learn to Forgive People
It was the late 1980s. Our church was buzzing and growing. God was moving powerfully. We had just moved into a new Worship Center and all of a sudden, transition was inevitable. While our numbers gained greatly, we also saw a few individuals and families depart. As any pastor would be, I was troubled.
This Was an Important Moment for Me
God had raised up a man to walk with me through those days of transition. His name was Ron Lewis. He joined me on the journey to help the church as we advanced toward reaching our region with the Gospel, and he listened to me share about a few individuals and families who had departed our church. As a pastor, you know what it is like: we do not want to lose anyone and while God is bestowing our church with countless blessings, Satan sidetracks us with one little issue.
I will never forget what Ron Lewis told me that day.
Ronnie, Never Let Anyone Outside of Your Circle of Love
Sitting in a Bonanza restaurant, we were working through how we could sustain momentum in our church. Ron looked at me and said, “Ronnie, never let anyone outside of your circle of love.” I will never forget those words.
Ron expounded on his remarks. He shared that if my heart was big enough to forgive continually and love unconditionally, the very same people who may leave today may come back around in the future. Even today I hear those words resounding continually: “Ronnie, never let anyone outside of your circle of love.”
How Our God Has Used Those Words in My Life and Ministry
I took Ron’s counsel to heart immediately. Additionally, the Holy Spirit reminded me of the words of the great scholar and teacher of evangelism at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, Dr. Oscar Thompson. He taught us continually, “The moment you experienced the love of Jesus Christ at salvation, you chose to forfeit the right to whom you would love.” Boom! At that moment, God did a major work in my life personally and as a pastor.
Starting that day, I have never let anyone outside of my circle of love! I do not have the right to love this person and not love that person. Jesus sets the bar: Love all people! Yes, unconditional love for all people. Even for a pastor and his family, there are times we are pressed on this issue. However, love and forgiveness always win!
Pastor, Learn to Forgive People
Pastor, let me share three simple actions you can take to never let anyone outside your circle of love. Every pastor needs to be a forgiver!
1. Take People to the Lord in Prayer
Pastor, there will be people in your church who will hurt you and even offend you deeply. Others will lie about you or cause problems in the fellowship. Still others will leave the church, even after you have won them to Christ, loved them, discipled them, and cared for them through some of their deepest pain. How should you respond?
Take them to Jesus in prayer one by one. Call their name out to the Lord in prayer. I am convinced that if I pray for people who have hurt me or tried to hurt the church, I will never let them outside of my circle of love. Sometimes we want to talk to everyone else about what they have done. Insure that you talk to God about them. He is the only one who can keep your heart soft and sensitive to Him and others.
2. Forgive Continually
Forgiveness is a way of life for a Christian, especially for a Christian leader. Please do not take it lightly. Do not try to turn the rattlesnake of unforgiveness into your pet or friend. If you do, it will strike you with a poison that will eventually destroy you and eventually your ministry. A pastor and his wife cannot let Satan win this battle! He will destroy you, your marriage, your kids, and perhaps even your leadership in the church. Unforgiveness and bitterness never has a place in the life of a pastor and his wife. Forgive continually.
3. Let it Go
Regardless of what has been said, written, or presumed about you, let it go. Take it to the Lord in prayer. Forgive continually. Then, let it go! You cannot go forward holding on to a past hurt. You cannot go forward resenting people, situations, or the church itself. Let it go!
Never Let Anyone Outside of Your Circle of Love
When you do not let anyone outside of your circle of love, eventually many will come back to you. I’ve lived long enough and pastored the same church long enough to see this occur. If I had not prayed, been forgiving, and let my personal pain go, my heart would have never been open to someone’s return or been able to invite them to return to us as a church family.
My challenge to you is very simple: Pastor, never let anyone outside of your circle of love! Remember, the moment you received the love of Christ into your life, you forfeited your right to choose whom you would love.
Now is the Time to Lead,
Ronnie W. Floyd
Guest Post | God is on the Move! by Bill Elliff
Today, RonnieFloyd.com welcomes guest blogger, Bill Elliff. Bill is the Sr. Teaching Pastor of The Summit Church in Little Rock and Conway, Arkansas, and Pastor/Church Director of the OneCry Initiative. Bill is also a published author, having recently published One Cry: A Nationwide Call for Spiritual Awakening with co-author Byron Paulus. His new book, The Presence-Centered Church is coming soon.
God is always previous. When someone comes to faith in Christ, you can be sure that the Wind of the Spirit has been blowing beforehand—convicting, convincing, and bringing faith to a heart by grace.
What is true of an individual heart is true of God’s work in revival. Every Great Awakening has been preceded by years of growing spiritual activity. A veteran of the Welsh Revival wrote:
“Though every revival ultimately culminates in a form which attracts the attention of all, no revival is of sudden origin. Behind the startling outburst is a process which sometimes goes on for years, a purifying and preparatory process. It was so in connection with that of 1904.”1
Most spiritual leaders across our nation are recognizing that there is more activity for revival happening than at any other period in our lifetime. God is on the move.
DESPERATION IS GROWING
In the days before the coming of Christ, “all of Judea and all of Jerusalem” were coming out to hear John the Baptist as he prepared the way for the Lord. The crowds, the tax gathers, and even the Roman soldiers were all asking, “What shall we do?”2
This past summer we witnessed the re-defining of marriage in June, the Planned Parenthood revelations in July, and the Ashley Madison exposure in August—all revealing the massive wickedness of our nation. Was this an accident? Or is God exposing who we are as a nation to bring us to such desperation that we will cry out to Him? All around us people are asking, “What shall we do?”
VOICES ARE RISING
All across the nation right now, in every major denomination there are men who are sounding the cry for revival in the church and awakening among the lost. Thousands of pastors are preaching messages on revival… messages of repentance, coming judgment, but great hope if we will “pray and seek His face and turn from our wicked ways.” In Prescott, Arizona a group of churches spent the last 8 weeks all studying a series on revival, culminated by a rally of all the churches so they could have a common language and common burden.
Last year, 60 revival leaders gathered for the National Symposium on Revival sponsored by the OneCry initiative. Three days were spent in preparing and praying for what we hope to see in the next Great Awakening. But not just well-known leaders. The conversation about revival is on the tongue of most serious believers. We are realizing that nothing can save us but an invasion of God’s Spirit.
AGREEMENT IS SOLIDIFYING
The National Prayer Committee, comprised of most major prayer initiatives across the nation, recently adopted the National Prayer Accord.3 They are urging churches and ministries to adopt this rhythm of praying for revival every week as individuals or groups, every month in a called prayer meeting of the church, every quarter gathering with like-minded churches in their areas, and every year on the National Day of Prayer (the first Thursday in May). Hundreds of churches are agreeing and joining in this movement.
There is a rising tide of explicit agreement that only God can save us and that we must repent and cry out!
UNITY IS BUILDING
Brent Brooks, a pastor in Reno, Nevada, came back from a conference on revival burdened for his city. He didn’t know what to do, but began to call pastors and meet them for lunch. To his amazement, he discovered there were 6 different groups of churches that had been meeting in the past year all crying out for revival… and none of them knew the others existed!
Brent was used, along with the OneCry initiative, to pull all of these groups together for a day of prayer for revival. 450 leaders came the first year and over 700 this past year, all burdened for spiritual awakening. This has led to quarterly prayer gatherings for revival in Reno and multiple initiatives. The pastors now believe that revival is coming to America and that it’s going to start in Reno!
The pastor of the one of the largest churches in Washington, D.C. publicly apologized recently for not cooperating with other pastors and churches. This led to a prayer gathering on the Washington mall with over 5,000 believers.
In the past few months, I have been invited to two gatherings that will unite leaders from every group across America—the Awaken America Solemn Assembly in Atlanta in January and a National Solemn Assembly in the Dallas Cowboy stadium in Texas, July 16, 2016. Similar gatherings have been held in Texas, Louisiana, and North Carolina, gathering tens of thousands together for prayer. 10,000 students gathered in Minneapolis, MN on the National Day of Prayer.
A CRY IS ERUPTING
Two years ago, a group of Southern Baptist pastors felt so burdened that they invited pastors to join them in Dallas for two days of nothing but prayer for revival. 350 men came and the response was so great that another meeting was held the following January in Atlanta, where 450 leaders attended. Out of this, at last count, over 17 states have held similar gatherings with thousands of pastors involved.
Recently in a town of 18,000 (Eldorado, Arkansas) the mayor and city council called the town to 40 days of prayer and fasting. When outside secular groups threatened to sue them, they proclaimed they would not back down. I recently was invited to lead a cross-denominational pastors’ prayer meeting there. It was one of the most vibrant prayer meetings I have witnessed in many years.
Revive Indiana was an initiative designed to come into one city for a week, calling the people to prayer and then returning 52 days later for a time of witness and harvest. Instead, the initial prayer meeting exploded and never stopped. One volunteer said he came for 7 days and instead stayed 7 months! Now that movement has spread to seven different cities in Indiana.
THE GOSPEL IS ACCELERATING
Samuel Davies, the President of Princeton who was known as the “Apostle of Virginia” during the First Great Awakening, said that during the revival “the gospel became almighty and carried everything before it.”
The ultimate agenda of revival is that God’s “glory will dwell in our land” that would lead to the rapid advance of the gospel.4
At Princeton, the Christian Union leaders have begun to pray two hours a day, every day. The result is more conversions than they have seen in the last 25 years and their Bible groups so full that they had to close them for lack of leaders. The Christian Union is now the largest service organization on campus!
Even in the world of entertainment, the phenomenal success of “War Room” and “Woodlawn”—both movies totally dedicated to prayer and spiritual awakening—are seeing people come to Christ. At this writing, after just one week of Woodlawn, reports are in that over 3,000 athletes have come to Christ!
Everywhere around us we see the signs of God’s preparatory work for the next Great Awakening. God is on the move. How can you join Him?
- Become a voice for revival!
- Unite with other pastors and leaders in your area.
- Stimulate extraordinary, united prayer in every way you can.
Join God in what He is already doing, and be part of what He will do in the days to come.
Bill Elliff
Sr. Teaching Pastor
The Summit Church
Little Rock | Conway
Pastor/Church Director, OneCry Initiative
Twitter: @belliff
1 R.B. Jones, “Rent Heavens: The Welsh Revival, Some of its Hidden Springs and Prominent Results
2 Luke 3:10-15
3 http://www.prayerconnect.net/resources/prayer-accord
4 Psalm 85