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Consistency in the Life of a Pastor
People want leaders who are consistent. Have you ever been in a situation where you had to follow someone who does not lead consistently? You know, someone who is up and down, has emotions all over the map, and their responses are impulsive. Let’s set the record straight.
Consistency is adhering to the same principles. Consistency is acting or behaving in the same way. Firmness, coherence, and regularity should never be undervalued. When a Pastor-Leader adheres consistently to the same principles, lives with regularity, and thinks coherently, he is able to add tremendous value to people and the church or organization he serves.
How consistent are you? How consistent is your leadership?
People desire pastors to be consistent. Are you consistent? Do you lead with a commitment to regularity, sameness, firmness, and always live by the same principles you preach to others? These are serious questions that each of us must answer honestly. Let’s face it: Jesus Christ lived a consistent life. He is the same yesterday, today, and forever. Consistency is one way we can strive to be like Jesus.
When you lead consistently
When a Pastor leads consistently…
- Your people will trust you. It is much easier to trust and place confidence in a pastor who leads consistently. People become endeared to a leader they can count on. There is enough uneasiness in the world already; people want to have a pastor they can trust. Consistency leads to trust.
- Your people will respect you. Pastors should not have a personal goal to be liked by everyone; however, a pastor needs to have a goal to be respected. A leader will be admired and receive high respect when he leads consistently.
- Your people will follow you. It is much easier to follow a leader who is clear and consistent than it is to follow a leader who is inconsistent. If people cannot count on some “sameness” in your life, they will be less likely to follow you. I have observed this for years: Staff members in my fellowship that have tested well through the storms and difficult circumstances of life and have lived consistently, never have a problem with people following them.
A few final words…
I know many pastors who do not live consistently and do not lead with consistency in their lives. It is not a matter of the heart as much as a matter of priorities. If we want people to trust us, respect us, and follow us, we must live and lead with consistency.
Yours for the Great Commission,
Ronnie W. Floyd
A Pastor and His Children
A pastor must do all he can do to have a good relationship with his children. Through the years, this seems to always be a topic of conversation when talking with pastors. My wife is a “Preacher’s Kid” and understands the pressure of growing up in a pastor’s home, and now what it is like to be married to a pastor. Therefore, we worked very hard as a team to capture the hearts of our children for the Lord, the gospel, and for our family.
In November, we hosted the Annual Meeting of the Arkansas Baptist State Convention. They requested that we conduct an authentic and transparent conversation of my relationship with our two sons. I hope you will sit back for a few minutes and laugh with us, grow with us, and share our conversation together. Be sure you share it with others. Thanks for taking a few minutes to watch it.