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When JFK Died, Things Changed

JFK-AirportWhere were you when JFK died? On November 22, 1963, President John F. Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas, Texas. It is amazing how my memory awakens concerning that season in American life. When JFK died…

I was in the second grade

I had just turned eight years old and was in the second grade when we were informed of the assassination of President Kennedy. Television captivated those moments before our eyes. For days, until the President was buried, it seemed America came to a complete stop. I remember watching our black and white television non-stop – or as much as the event could be covered.

My generation was shaped

Just as my children’s generation has been shaped by the events of September 11, 2001, my generation was shaped by the stunning death of our President in 1963. Looking back, it still seems surreal. Can you believe it? Our President was shot to death on the streets of the great city of Dallas, Texas.

Journalist Peggy Noonan writes in the Wall Street Journal article “Why We Still Talk About JFK”:

We still talk about JFK and his death because the biggest generation in all U.S. History, that part of the population known as the baby boomers, watched it all, live, on that new thing called TV, and it entered our heads and never left. It was the first central historical fact of our lives, so we still read about it, think about it, and watch anything to do with it.

Yes, my generation was shaped by the death of this President. I am still captivated and continue to read about it to this day.

A new future was forged

Through the fire of this tragic loss in American history, a new future began to be forged with the heat of subsequent assassinations, cultural tension in America, racial inequality, and the Vietnam War. Mindsets and ideologies began to change and diversify, causing even more tension in American life.

In the same Wall Street Journal article, Peggy Noonan made a keen observation:

But Camelot isn’t JFK. Camelot is the way we remember America before JFK died. Camelot is the America that existed, for one brief shining moment, before Lee Harvey Oswald began to shoot.

Perhaps my generation and those who came before us are guilty of wanting an America that was existent before the open bloodshed on the streets of Dallas on November 22, 1963.

Life’s tragic moments

Life’s tragic moments that happen to us personally and in our nation do not necessarily have to define us. Often times, they really just expose us. They reach into the depths of our hearts, into the inner sanctum of our being, and squeeze us. At that moment, what is in us comes out.

The way we respond to these tragic moments serves as a reminder of our human weakness and our deep need for God. Whether I am looking back at the events I experienced as an eight year-old in the second grade or as an adult Pastor-Leader in 2001 when 9-11 attacks occurred, I am reminded of the weakness of our humanity and our deep need for God.

Wherever you are today

Wherever you are today in your life, go ahead and admit your weakness as a human being and acknowledge your deep need for God. Often, we act as though nothing can penetrate our callousness, but tragedy always exposes where we really are in life.

Wherever you are and whatever may be before you this week, remember your deep need for God. He is there. He is with you. Yes, He is Emmanuel. God is with us.

Yours for the Great Commission,

Ronnie W. Floyd

When Expectations are not Met

catch.jpgI am a football fan. I love the game at all levels: high school, college, and professional. In high school, the playoffs are now beginning. In college, bowl eligibility and possible championships are pending. In the professional realm, separation from the pretenders and true contenders is becoming clear.

At this point of the season, most teams are discovering that their expectations are not being met and will not be met. This creates moments of enormous tension and stress for individuals, teams, their followers, and of course, the coaches themselves. Few things are as difficult as dealing with unmet expectations.

What should we do when expectations are not met?

1. Evaluate everything, beginning with yourself.

When expectations are not met in your life, the easiest thing to do is to point fingers at others, situations, or even make excuses. It may be true that others may have affected the outcome and situations beyond your control may have influenced the present condition. However, begin with evaluating everything.

  • Were your expectations reasonable?
  • Were your expectations attainable?
  • What could you have done to improve the outcome?

2. Elevate the process, not the end result.

National championship football coach, Nick Saban stated on “60 Minutes” that he tells his team at the University of Alabama not to look at the scoreboard, but the process; perfect the process and the scoreboard will take care of itself. Nick Saban is exactly right. Far too many times in our culture, we are bent on focusing on the end result rather than the process itself. Consider these thoughts:

  • The process always precedes the product.
  • If you want a better product, change the process.
  • Elevate process even more than your expectation.

3. Expand yourself and the rest will take care of itself.

Expanding yourself is not about increasing yourself, but about growing personally. One of the greatest blessings that can happen from not meeting your expectations is the personal growth that will come if you learn from your experience. Life can be a wonderful teacher if you are willing to learn from it. Ask yourself honestly:

  • Am I teachable?
  • What did I learn?
  • How will I change?
  • What will I do differently?

Yes, if you will grow through every unmet expectation in your life, the rest will take care of itself.

Therefore, do not treat your unmet expectations as your enemies, but as friends and teachers in your life.

Yours for the Great Commission,

Ronnie W. Floyd