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Dealing with Failure as a Pastor
Dealing with failure is one of the most difficult challenges in the life and ministry of a pastor. Failing to meet our own expectations and the expectations of others can lead to an overwhelming sense of guilt.
Failure exists everywhere
Everywhere we look today, we see failure:
- Our nation’s foreign policy
- Our nation’s financial uncertainty
- Our businesses or churches, when certain goals are not reached
- Marriages that end in divorce
- Parenting that is inconsistent and ineffective
- Containing worldwide threats like the Ebola virus and the advancement of the terrorist group ISIS
Undoubtedly, failure is a part of life.
One thing I know
One thing I know is that we are all quite gifted in failure. I feel as the Apostle Paul, I am the chief of sinners; or in this case, I am the most experienced in failure.
I realize that when we struggle with failure, we can be overcome with a deep sense of guilt. But we also begin to hear the endless accusations of Satan as he accuses us personally, before others, and even before God Himself. This often leads us into a cycle of endless failure.
There is hope
Peter, one of the greatest men in human history, was a man who failed Jesus miserably, but was later raised up to be used of God extraordinarily.
- One moment, Peter was declaring Jesus as the Son of God and being commended by Jesus before others. The next moment, he was being rebuked by Jesus because of his false view of Jesus’ role in life.
- One moment, Peter was in the presence of Jesus, experiencing community with His Last Supper. A few hours later, Peter was denying he had ever met Jesus.
- Through his grief and devastation, God raised Peter up supernaturally as a picture of forgiveness, grace, and power; because through this man, the gospel was preached as the church was birthed into existence.
Therefore, since God did this with Peter, he can do it with you. There is hope!
You may feel you are the worst failure in ministry today, completely unqualified to serve because of some of your failures. Yet, God may have a plan for you that is far superior to what you have ever imagined.
Think on these things related to failure in life and ministry
1. Failure is not the end: Love forgives you.
Just as Peter understood God’s love, we need to understand God’s love.
Do you remember what Peter stated under the inspiration of God’s Spirit?
He wrote these words in 1 Peter 4:8, “Above all, maintain an intense love for each other, since love covers a multitude of sins.”
Pastor, above all, have an intense love for all people. Never let anyone outside of your circle of love. Why? Because God’s love covers a multitude of our own sins. Peter understood this as much as anyone. We need to understand it also.
Stop believing your failure is the end! It is not. Love forgives you. Therefore, forgive yourself. Forgive others. Let it go. Go forward in your life and ministry.
2. Failure can lead to a new future: Grace restores you.
What you may view as a major setback, God may want to use as a major set up for a new future for your life and ministry. How can this be possible? Grace!
Grace restores you! It takes that which appears to be broken and repairs it to God’s glory. Thank God, grace restores you and me!
We view failure many times as an enemy, but it is a great teaching tool. It points out our weakness and helps us see our deep need for God. Failure can help us chart a new future, all because of grace.
3. Failure is not fatal: The Holy Spirit empowers you.
Many pastors are so overwhelmed by their failure that they buy into the demonic words of Satan that declare failure is fatal. It is not fatal!
If it were, Peter would have been declared dead the instant of his denials.
Yet, the Holy Spirit raised him up supernaturally. He can and will do the same for you and me. The Holy Spirit wants to empower us to follow Jesus all the way to death, into eternal life and heaven itself.
Finally…
Please remember the next time you are overcome with failure, love forgives you, grace restores you, and the Holy Spirit empowers you.
There is hope for you and me.
Yours for the Great Commission,
Ronnie W. Floyd
Four Key Questions Every Church Leader Needs to Ask
Do you always know the right questions to ask? One of the most difficult things to do as a church leader is to know the right questions to ask. I believe when we discover this, we will make the right decisions for the future of the church. What are the four key questions every church leader needs to ask?
Question #1: What is best for the church?
The number one question that every church leader must always ask is: What is best for the church? In fact, church leaders need to teach the members of the church to ask this question: What is best for the church?
Sadly, in this day of entitlement, the fellowship of the church is being hijacked by the carnal consumerism of its members. This has occurred because too many of us have stopped asking this most important question: What is best for the church? The church is about Jesus Christ, the Word of God, the Gospel of Jesus Christ, the discipleship of believers, reaching of those without Christ, and the advancement of the Kingdom of God. The church is not about me and my personal needs. Nor is it about you and your personal needs.
At the next business conference in your church, point your people to this question: What is best for the church? At the next committee meeting where debate occurs about church matters, stop everyone. Push pause. Call them to ask this question: What is best for the church? Where there is a plethora of opinions about the future of the church and what the church should do, ask people to wrestle with this question: What is best for the church? If you are a pastor approached by a staff member or a church leader about church matters, challenge them to ask this important question: What is best for the church?
Listen friend, it is time we get back to what is best for the church of Jesus Christ. When we do, decision making in the church will begin to make sense and operate in a more biblical order.
Question #2: What is best for the Office of the Pastor?
The second question that we need to ask when faced with decision making in the church is the question: What is best for the Office of the Pastor? Today, there is a very concerted effort by the enemy, Satan himself, to bring destruction to the Office of the Pastor. Attack after attack is occurring, even bringing the termination of many God-called pastors in service to their church. This is sad and wrong.
The American culture is constantly questioning their leaders. Sadly, it happens not only in politics, education, business, and athletics, but even in the church. From news talk shows and debates to blogs and social media, there is a growing blatant attack on the leaders in our nation and world. Scripture does not applaud this conduct, but condemns it.
When churches or ministries are confused about the future, there must be enough spirituality present among people to ask these two questions, in this order:
- What is best for the church?
- What is best for the Office of the Pastor?
You see, if the Office of the Pastor ever becomes jeopardized in a local church, then the entire church will be affected negatively. I have never seen a church that dishonors the Office of the Pastor go on to prosper over any length of time. In fact, I have seen those churches become shipwrecked.
I appeal to you always to have your church at heart and then to always lift up the Office of the Pastor. When you do, your church will become a recipient of God’s blessing and power.
Question #3: What is best for my ministry?
Many well-intentioned church members and staff members are concerned about the ministries they are involved in personally or may even lead. If they are not careful, this will skew their decision making and can even sour their attitudes.
Always start with asking: What is best for the church? Then follow that with asking: What is best for the Office of the Pastor? Then and only then, is it right to ask the question: What is best for my ministry?
From your perspective it may make sense for a specific ministry you are involved in to receive greater support financially. However, this may not be best for the church. Remember, the pastor has to look at every ministry of the church, not just yours. Therefore, in reality, he may have to determine it is not best for the church and deny the allocation of monies. For the sake of what is best for the church, receive the decision.
Your desire just may not be met at this time. Perhaps it will be later, but just not now. Trust the Lord. Leave it in His hands.
Question #4: What is best for me?
How many times do you say about matters in the church, “Well, this is what I think we need to do”? Or, do you perhaps say, “Well, this is what will minister to me the most”? While this may be your feeling, it just may not be the will of God or the best thing for the church.
The greatest churches in the world are not the churches that cater to the needs of its people. The greatest churches in the world are those committed to being a Jesus church above all else and one of the wonderful byproducts of this is that the needs of people are met. Christlikeness moves decision making, not consumerism.
Keep the list in order, refusing to let it become inverted
Keep these questions in your heart. Keep them before yourself. Keep them before the members of your church. Keep them in order. Refuse to let them become inverted by yourself, others, or your church.
What order do they go in? What is proper? What will bring order?
- What is best for the church?
- What is best for the Office of the Pastor?
- What is best for my ministry?
- What is best for me?
I hope you will have a great week in your church.
Yours for the Great Commission,
Ronnie W. Floyd