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Stick with Forgiveness

Being ready and willing to forgive are immutable marks of following Jesus. We do not have the option of holding grudges, fostering bitterness, or acting as if we are God. We must stick with forgiveness.

Matthew records a forgiveness-themed discussion between Jesus and Peter. “Then Peter came to Him and said, ‘For, how many times could my brother sin against me and I forgive him? As many as seven times?’ ‘I tell you, not as many as seven,’ Jesus said to him, ‘but 70 times seven.’”1 Later in the same passage Jesus likened forgiveness to showing mercy.

No Quota on Grace

Ben Mandrell in Bible Studies for Life gets to the heart of the conversation, “Peter was basically asking if there’s a quota on grace. How many times are we called to let the same person slide off the hook?”2

Isn’t this too often the way we think? How few times can we comply with God’s commands before we get out from under them? Without saying it, at times we are looking for the minimum requirements for godliness. This is especially true when we are called upon to forgive others.

The rabbis of Jesus’s day required followers to forgive three times. Peter, who must have thought he was going well beyond what was expected by suggesting seven times, found out was mercy was really about. Jesus’ teaching that forgiveness was to be extended 490 times (70 x 7) was not about an extension of the law. It was about going far beyond into a new law of grace, love, and mercy.

Grace upon Grace

When we think of “minimalist Christianity” we do not reflect the One who extends to us grace upon grace. Our goal as believers is to be filled with the Spirit, extending grace, love, and mercy to everyone in our sphere of influence.

When the disciples asked Jesus for lessons in praying, He included, “Forgive us our debts, as we also have also forgiven our debtors.”3 Extending forgiveness to others is woven into the very fabric of the Christian life. The holding of grudges and harboring of bitterness are things Jesus has saved us from, not for.

There is No Pit so Deep that He is not Deeper Still

Corrie ten Boom survived the horrors of the same Third Reich that consumed members of her family. Corrie survived Ravensbruck concentration camp, where her sister Betsie died. Betsie’s last words to Corrie, “There is no pit so deep that He is not deeper still” provided guidance for Corrie as she had to forgive those who had persecuted her and her family.4

Can we stick with forgiveness? Can we extend to others that which God has extended to us? Forgiveness can be a key to opening a door to the gospel. It is a door we cannot allow to be pinned shut by a lack of mercy. This is why we must stick with forgiveness.

Yours for the Great Commission,

Ronnie W. Floyd

Senior Pastor, Cross Church
General Editor, Bible Studies for Life
President, Southern Baptist Convention

 

References

1– Matthew 18:21, 22 (HCSB)
2– Bible Studies for Life, Like Glue, Ben Mandrell
3– Matthew 6:12
4– http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corrie_ten_Boom

Stick with Encouragement

Have you ever been discouraged? I have. Have you ever faced a period of prolonged discouragement? Have you ever been discouraged over a job promotion that passed you by? Have you ever been discouraged over your marriage or another important relationship?

Have you ever been discouraged in ministry? Have you prayed and worked and waited only to have a major effort fail? I have.

Discouraged or a Discourager

Discouragement is something everyone faces at one time or another. But, let’s turn the question around: Have you ever been a discourager? Sometimes we discourage people without meaning to. A casual word not meant to be negative is perceived as such. A well-intended critique is received as overly critical. Causing someone to become discouraged is something all Christians should avoid.

Some people are natural encouragers. Every time they speak, people around them feel better. When they are in a team meeting, the members of the team feel like goals can be met. Everyone wants to be around an encourager. As Ben Mandrell writes in Bible Studies for Life, “Encouragement strengthens relationships.”1 Few people are known more for encouragement than Barnabas, the “Son of Encouragement.”

Encouragement Makes a Difference

It’s worth noting that Barnabas was not that disciple’s given name. It was his nickname. His name, as recorded in Acts 4:36, was Joseph of Cyprus. It seems Barnabas’s ministry brought encouragement to so many he was renamed to reflect it. Barnabas’s ministry in the life of the new convert Saul (Acts 9) is evidence of what encouragement often entails: putting one’s self “out there.” In the words of Ben Mandrell, “You may never know the difference you make in another’s life when you simply extend the hand of fellowship and invite him or her into your world.”2

Here are two good ways to encourage others: 

1. Make intentional introductions
2. Look for good things in others to affirm

Few things are more difficult than being the new person in a group. At work, in the neighborhood, at church, or in a sports league, all these places find new people onboarding. Most churches have visitors regularly; people who may have never attended any church.

Ways to be Intentional 

It is important for followers of Jesus to be intentional in social settings. On Sunday morning we should scour the auditorium for new faces. A smile with “Hi. Great to see you” or “I’m sorry, I’m not sure we’ve met” or “Can I help you find something?” goes a long way. No one should leave our gatherings wondering whether they were even seen or not. It isn’t necessary to be a one-person Welcome Wagon in order to be intentional. A kind word and welcoming actions are very encouraging.

Ways to Affirm

We should also look for things to affirm in others. Many people are natural critics, and not even in a negative sense. They simply feel the best way to help others is to help them correct bad things about their life. This certainly has a place, but all negative all the time is not encouraging.

Instead, we should seek to affirm. Everyone in the world has a positive quality, even if that quality comes across negatively. We can point out the sharp mind behind the sharp tongue, the consistency behind the stubbornness, or the attention to detail behind the obsessiveness. Affirming positive qualities is an overtly encouraging act that opens doors and strengthens relationships.

Why not be a Barnabas? Why not stick with encouragement? Everyone around us will be glad when we do. This is why we need to stick with encouragement! 

Yours for the Great Commission,

Ronnie W. Floyd

Senior Pastor, Cross Church
General Editor, Bible Studies for Life
President, Southern Baptist Convention 

References

1, 2– Bible Studies for Life, Like Glue, Ben Mandrell